M (or should I just start referring to him as "the ex" now?) and I talked over the weekend. These are the tentative things we've agreed to:
- He's going to give me $2800 to cover finances for the next two months.
- Assuming I move out by the end of January, he's going to give me $10,000 (approximately the amount he would have had to pay for rent and utilities for the next 5 months - so he'll be paying the money to me instead of the landlord).
- He's going to look through all my credit card statements and determine what was for us or him, and then he'll give me half of whatever that amount is. He said gas he'll pay half automatically (since I have been his chauffeur for the past 6 yrs!), and he'll "consider" food (how many times I've brought him back food after going out with friends/family, I can't even count).
- He and I are going to sell a bunch of his, my, and our stuff in the house on Craig's List and eBay and split the proceeds.